May 22, 2019

Relationships, Intimacy, and Sex in Benzo Withdrawal

Updated: Mar 23, 2023

Intimacy is essential to a healthy, happy life. And yet, during benzo withdrawal it is often one of the earliest casualties. How can a loving relationship — let alone a healthy sex life — survive the trials of benzo dependence and withdrawal?

In today’s episode, we explore how to nurture a loving relationship and avoid the pitfalls of anger, isolation, and hypersensitivity. We also hear a benzo story from Christchurch, New Zealand and catch up on last week’s news.

Video ID: BFP019

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction 03:39 Benzo News 05:44 Benzo Story 13:46 Relationships in Withdrawal 48:46 Moment of Peace

Resources

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BENZO NEWS

FEATURE: Relationships in Withdrawal

Assari, Shervin. “Who’s Avoiding Sex? Psychiatrist Cites 3 Reasons.” Inverse. May 5, 2019. Accessed May 6, 2019.https://www.inverse.com/article/55494-sex-health-why-people-are-avoiding-it.
BENZO FREE PODCAST: Episode #12 — Conversation with a Caregiver
Foster, D E. Benzo Free: The World of Anti-Anxiety Drugs and the Reality of Withdrawal. Erie, Colorado: Denim Mountain Press, 2018. https://easinganxiety.com/book.
“Getting into the flow: Sexual pleasure is a kind of trance.” Northwestern University. October 31, 2016. Accessed May 16, 2019. https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2016-10/nu-git103116.php.
Gregoire, Carolyn. “Sexual Pleasure Literally Puts you Into a Trance.” Huffington Post. November 4, 2016. Accessed May 18, 2019. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/sexual-pleasure-trance_n_581a0950e4b01f610e395c14.
Oxford English Dictionary, “Intimacy.” Accessed April 7, 2018.https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/intimacy.
Peters, JC. “How to Use Meditation to Cultivate Intimacy.” Psych Central. July 8, 2018. Accessed May 15, 2019.https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to-use-meditation-to-cultivate-intimacy/.

Introduction

In today’s intro, I kept is short. Mentioned a few symptoms I was currently experiencing including brain fog.

Benzo Story

Today’s story was from Linda in Christchurch, New Zealand.

Feature

Today’s featured topic: Relationships, Intimacy, and Sex in Benzo Withdrawal

In the feature, we explored the toll that benzo withdrawal can take on intimate relationships. We looked at different levels of intimacy and discussed a few tips for improving communication during this trying time. We also explored sex for a while

The Podcast

The Benzo Free Podcast provides information, support, and community to those who struggle with the long-term effects of anxiety medications such as benzodiazepines (Xanax, Ativan, Klonopin, Valium) and Z-drugs (Ambien, Lunesta, Sonata).

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